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Your choices, your words of self-connection and peace, have been emailed to you.

Next steps

Making guess for the other person

If your situation involves another person, ask yourself, “am I willing to go through these same steps for them, making guesses what might they be feeling, and what might they be needing?” Trust me, it’s worth doing!! Click on the link below (opens in new tab). There will also be a link in the email to do this step later, if you sent the email to yourself.

Make guesses for the other person

Wanting more?

You can learn much more about NVC, and be able to use it with more nuance and depth, in my online course.

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Want printed feelings and needs list? I’ve made this great little one page “pocket guide” on my Downloads page.

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Got any feedback about the Find Peace process? Something you’d like added or removed or changed? Any words you’d like to see added to any of the lists, or any additions you think people might find supportive? Or just that you enjoyed using it? I’d love to hear from you.


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